To speak with eloquence is to speak fluently and persuasively, and to deliver clearly and confidently. Eloquence involves verbal and non-verbal communication skills.
In order to become better, more articulate and persuasive speakers, we can do the following:
- Write. By writing, you exercise your brain and begin to activate various areas such as the hippocampus (memory), the frontal lobe (organization), and the reticular activating system (filtering).
- Build your vocabulary with apps such as Vocabulary or Vocabulary Builder by Magoosh.
- Use simple, clear and relatable language depending on the audience. Remember that less is more.
- Use exercises for speech articulation, enunciation and clarity.
- Practice speaking through application of new vocabulary and use of proper articulation, annunciation, speed and tonality.
- Practice delivery with proper body language, adequate use of hands and reduced body movement.
- Join organizations such as Toastmasters International or National Speakers Association.
- If preparing for a public speech or a presentation, know your audience, tailor the message correctly, narrow the content, and rehearse. Most importantly, tell a story. Shine the light on key points such as “the number one reason …” or “the biggest mistake…”
- Think before you speak. Take a moment to process your thoughts before responding. Silence is not weakness. It speaks strength.
- Relax, do not over think what you will say. Enjoy the journey of becoming the best speaker you can be. Remember, it is about progress not perfection.
- Be mindful of how you speak and deliver daily. Every sentence should be articulated and spoken clearly.
Exercise: set a goal to speak with eloquence at least once during the conversation. Repeat the next day. Repeat again. Small alterations have compounding effect.
